
Many who have suffered from trauma, addiction and/or alcoholism have seen tramatic or very stressful events in their lives. Our bodies are absolutely amazing and part of our body/brain unconsciously works for survival. You may have heard of flight, flight, submit, freeze, and fawn where the Limbic system takes over to protect from danger. These are life-saving autonomic processes that can continue after the danger has passed. An example could be a veteran whose body would quickly respond to loud noise as a life-saving process. However, after the war, that same vet wouldn’t be able to go out or walk down the street without fear of excessive anger or feeling like they need to fight for life with sudden loud noises. Another could be a child who does everything they can not to make their alcoholic parent angry however when they become adults the trauma response kicks in when they hear their partner walking in the door and rush to “fawn” over them in order to survive even though the situation has changed. These automatic (non-cognitive) trauma responses can cause shame and feelings of worthlessness. The rub here is that even after the danger has passed, these responses can still be deeply embedded within our bodies, minds, and spirits.
How do embodiment practices help?
Many times in order to block out sights, sounds, touch, smell, etc that are all implicit reminders of terrible events our bodies “shut down” or weaken interoceptive pathways from our bodies to our brains as a means of protection. The less that is felt or the more that is felt (overwhelming information) the fewer trauma responses your body, mind, and spirit reacts to. Many live separate from the body in order to tolerate life. Feeling and living within one’s self is being fully alive. Embodiment is vital for healing and for long-term healthy living.
Here are 5 ways embodiment can help heal survivors of trauma or addictions:
- Finding safety within one’s self. You might think this seems easy, but it is one of the most overlooked parts of people recovering and finding healing for themselves. A basic sense of safety within one’s self is needed in this world to function and live a happy decent lives. Feeling safe when stress comes up matters. Feeling safe going to the grocery store matters. Feeling safe at night to gain needed rest for your body and soul matters. Your body and brain know that sensory input from your regular environment is safe matters. We don’t find real safety outside of ourselves. Real safety is found within.
- Strengthening Interoceptive Pathways to Change Behavior. We have interoceptive (Felt Sense) pathways from our body to our brain that have been encoded by past experiences. These pathways tell the brain when there is danger. A simple smell or touch that reminds the body and then the brain about a past event can set off alarm bells and a trauma response can ensue automatically. These pathways can be changed through the practice of safe predictable embodiment by building more robust interoceptive pathways that hence directly or indirectly change behavior through healing pathways that were encoded with danger.
- Feeling and Connecting with Emotions. The number one issue most therapists talk about is clients not being able to connect with and identify feelings. How do you know when you’re sad? You might know from feeling a lump in your throat when you’re holding back tears or maybe you feel a heaviness in your chest for instance …. not everyone feels sadness the same. Many can struggle to feel their body or to notice that lump in their throat which makes it impossible to connect with or label an emotion. Embodiment practices strengthen the ability to feel – to feel your heart beating, your breath…..the lump in the throat when sad.
- Feeling true Kindness toward one’s self. Many people who have been through trauma or addiction can struggle to just tolerate themselves. Through a non-prescriptive approach to embodiment and allowing clients to have their own real experiences (without giving them one we think they should have) they can start to approach the concept of friendliness toward oneself. Friendliness opens the door to curiosity and exploration of the whole person.
- Your Body as a Resource. Many times when people talk about healing, they might start talking about relaxing or calming. This can feel scary to someone who is hyper-vigilant and on the lookout for danger. Many of our balancing the nervous system is different than down-regulating or calming. It is possible for self-regulation to occur through embodiment however let’s note that self-regulation can be a part of the healing process but it is not the whole healing process. What is really important is to be able to find what works to feel safe, grounded, and empowered in that moment, right now. Remember what works today might not work tomorrow and what works for you may not work for someone else.
Healing through embodiment is a personal hopefully noncoercive process that when met with a non-prescriptive approach and empowerment can change lives.
Stay tuned as I dig deeper into each of the 5 ways embodiment can help heal trauma!


